In the silent moments when I give myself permission to think of you, You enter my mind and fill my heart with such joy and sadness all in one. I lay in my bed at night and I can feel the warmth of your arms around me, the sound of your breath in my ear and the memory of your voice telling me you love me. I allow myself to wonder for a moment of our life together, the journey we would have shared, I know there was something special between us, I knew it the first time we spoke, I know you felt it too. I could feel you liking me and although I have never even seen your eyes looking into mine, I felt them burning into my soul, knowing you saw and understood all of me, all of who I am and who I would be with you.
There are no words that can explain how I feel right now, my soul knows that even though we are not speaking that our paths will cross again one day and we will meet face to face. You will take me in your arms and tell me how you feel and I will share that moment only with you, and the world will melt away and there will only be you and me…
You will take my hand and hold it to your heart, I will feel the heat of your flesh as I gently caress your face. Your face and smile that now comes to me at night in my dreams and professes to me of a love, a love that fills you with excitement and joy but also a fear of vulnerability if you surrender yourself to me completely.
For now, you will live your life a thousand miles away from me. You wake, you work, you spend your time with others, people who fill your days, your nights and sometimes even your bed. Yet I know, when you allow yourself those precious moments, you close your eyes and you imagine me beside you and you permit yourself to surrender to the feeling of love you have for me, and for a second you hold me in your heart again…..then, like waking from a dream …..you slowly let me slip away.
Tips to help get over your first love
I used to love her, it’s the name of a famous song by Guns and Roses (see video below), but it’s also a very common statement for those who have ever gone through a break up. It’s the very reason why how to get over a break up is so god damn hard. The first time we let someone break our heart is usually the worst time for us all. Overcoming the first love may seem impossible as it feels like the most devastating thing in life. It’s hard to even see how we can be happy again when we come across some love poems or something to remind us about our broken love! We can not even imagine finding someone else.
The truth of the matter is that no matter how much you can not believe this now, you are capable of loving many people deeply. And as you say to yourself “I used to love her”, you can and probably will love somebody again. It probably won’t be her but it will be somebody. As you may or may not believe in “true love” or for that special person we like to call “the one” you can actually find and have a love life as deep as you did the first time.
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“Love makes life beautiful” is indeed a well said line (and also a short film) and a love life is indeed an important part of the human condition. Love is the natural and the most wonderful feeling on this earth that makes one a better person.
A better person makes the world a better place to live in. Love is unconditional. People in their love life don’t expect anything in return for the amount of love they shower on their partner. It’s just about giving and giving. Only true love will survive the test of time and succeed in creating a long lasting place in the heart of the person they love. People should never fall in love, but rather rise and rise in love. The love life of a person indicates the amount of trust, care, affection, admiration, belongingness and support one partner has for the other.
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